January 23, 2009
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receipts continued
How to fall in love:
1. Time. be with the person.
2. Location. be easy to meet up, get together. be available.
3. Similar likes/dislikes…and find them out.
4. Love what they love.
5. Admire them–you pursue what you admire.
6. Go over reasons WHY you love them in your head. over and over. and then tell them. often.
7. think, obsess about them.
8. Plan special things to do with them. and then do them. or at least talk about doing them UNTIL you do them.
9. Show up unexpectedly where they are.
10. Complement them. you remind yourself why they are great when you tell them so
11. Impress and be kind to their family. always.
12. Call at random times to just say Hello.
13. Become an expert on this person…ask about everything. and then listen. and remember.
14. Overhear them say nice things about you to others.
15. Be cool with their friends. Don’t be needy when in a group. Don’t be possessive or clingy.
16. Work with them.
17. Play sports with them. if they like sports. other activities if they don’t.
18. Put forth effort to impress them.
19. Be completely honest with them.
20. Talk about the little things that happen. in your life and theirs. Ask questions like “What do you feel about that?”
21. Be best friends.
22. Take their side.
23. Spread good gossip about them.
24. Share secrets.
25. Make them top priority.
26. Help them out. obviously or secretly.
27. Invest in them.
28. Respect them and what they do/have done. respect what made them who they are
29. Acknowledge/ be aware of their flaws, but choose to accept and overlook them. flaws are what make us unique and beautiful
30. Love their quirks – things that make them different
31. Spend time with them around others – it makes you proud & happy to know them
*and then a customer came and i put the receipts away. any more ideas? not expecting feedback…but if i get it i would be happy:).
**the last couple were added by SPOKENFOR–thank you!:)
Comments (5)
that’s quite a list. Think girls and guys have the same list?
@JadedJanissary - i was thinking generally…but then again, i naturally come by the bias of being a girl. i dunno. what do you think?
great list!! a few more:
1. respect them and what they do/have done. respect what made them who they are
2. acknowledge/ be aware of their flaws, but choose to accept and overlook them. flaws are what make us unique and beautiful
3. love their quirks – things that make them different
4. compliment them – you remind yourself why they are great when you tell them so
5. spend time with them around others – it makes you proud & happy to know them
@spokenfor - thank you! i edited it and added yours too…they are great ones. May God bless you greatly today. er..tomorrow. because today is almost over.
@rwinzeler - you’re very welcome. thanks for adding mine